Sharing a hotel room with strangers can feel awkward, especially when you’re wondering who gets the bathroom first. I recommend a conversation before departure and clear expectations, rather than hoping you’ll magically have the same bedtime.
On all the Sisterhood Travels trips I have taken, I have chose the roommate match. I’ll confess I was nervous about it. I had a very bad roommate experience on my very first group trip many years ago with a different company (a mixed men and women large group tour), so I had multiple reasons for being hesitant. With my Sisterhood trips, roommate matching has been a wonderful experience.
Finding the right roommate for group travel can offer savings and companionship, while a private room is equally valid. Start with the room arrangements, then talk about the everyday habits that matter.
Key Takeaways
- Shared rooms reduce costs, making a dream trip more accessible.
- Discuss sleep, snoring, temperature, and personal space before departure, with room for both people’s needs.
- Roommate matching doesn’t guarantee compatibility, and a room change may not be available.
- Choose a private room if uninterrupted rest and privacy matter more than shared-room savings.

Why many solo travelers choose a roommate for group travel
Sharing may help you avoid a solo traveler single supplement, the additional charge for occupying a room alone. The savings depend on the operator and trip. Finding the right roommate for group travel can make the overall experience much more enjoyable.
Solo travel can feel less daunting when another woman is nearby. Among the benefits of sharing a room is having someone to swap stories with after dinner. A roommate may become a travel buddy, but I wouldn’t expect an instant best friend.
How does Sisterhood Travels match roommates
Travel roommate matching varies by operator. Sisterhood Travels has this very valuable resource page that you can read before you book a trip.
On our trips, matching is complimentary but not guaranteed. You can request a match or book with someone you know.
Read my review of my first Sisterhood Travels trip.
Questions to ask your roommate before you go
I recommend connecting before your women’s group trip to get acquainted with a potential travel companion. Keep the conversation mutual, not a job interview with luggage.
I have always contacted my roommates my Sisterhood Travels trips through email. You will be provided with your roommates email address well before your trip.
Compare sleep schedules, snoring, and room temperature
Discuss usual bedtimes, wake-up times, alarms, snoring, preferred temperature, and late-night lights. Try, “What helps you sleep comfortably?” Then share your own needs. Kind, direct answers are more useful than agreeing to everything and losing sleep later.
Talk about packing style and personal space
Compare tidiness, luggage space, smoking if relevant, and quiet time. Someone who enjoys conversation may share comfortably with someone who needs downtime, provided both understand that preference. Needing a quiet half hour doesn’t mean either person is unfriendly.

Practice travel roommate etiquette in a shared room
I keep travel roommate etiquette simple: ask before borrowing anything, including chargers and toiletries. Sharing a room doesn’t make everything communal.
Use headphones, ear plugs, eye mask, take calls elsewhere when practical, and respect changing privacy. Agree on lights, air conditioning, and alarms rather than negotiating them at midnight.
Our tips for being a considerate roommate offer more ways to handle shared space. Your suitcase may be bursting, but your belongings still need boundaries.
Make bathroom, luggage, and morning routines easier
Keep toiletries in one bag so the bathroom counter stays usable. Divide drawers or shelves, and keep luggage out of walkways.
Before bed, lay out clothes and pack what you’ll need for the next day’s outing. If departure is early, agree on bathroom turns the night before.
I recommend doing hair or makeup outside the bathroom when possible. One mirror shouldn’t hold the whole morning hostage.
What to do if the roommate match is not working
Address small problems calmly and privately. “Could we take calls outside after ten?” gives your roommate something clear to work with.
If the concern continues, contact the group leader promptly.
For our trips, the policy is firm: rooms and roommates cannot be changed once the tour begins, including for snoring or incompatibility. That makes the pre-trip conversation especially important.
When a single room is the better choice
If interrupted sleep affects your day or you need dependable solitude, consider a private room. Choosing a private room won’t stop you from meeting a travel friend during group activities and meals.
A solo room costs more when a supplement applies. Confirm what the room type includes, along with the supplement’s coverage, payment deadline, and cancellation terms. A twin share generally means two travelers share a room.
Under our terms, upgrading to a single room requires paying the difference between double and single occupancy within 24 hours of your decision, subject to availability.

Frequently Asked Questions
How are roommates matched?
You can request our complimentary matching service or book with someone you know. Other operators may collect rooming preferences or offer no matching at all; there isn’t one industry-wide method.
What if we are not compatible?
I recommend describing the specific problem rather than labeling someone inconsiderate. Bring persistent concerns to the group leader, but don’t assume different personalities will qualify you for another room.
Can I switch roommates?
Our trips don’t allow roommate changes once the tour begins. With other operators, a switch depends on their process and available rooms, and additional charges may apply.
Do I have to share a room?
Private rooms are often available for an added fee, depending on the departure. Choosing one doesn’t mean you’re less interested in connecting with the group.
What about snoring?
Mention known snoring before the trip, without embarrassment. Earplugs or a white-noise app may help, but neither guarantees sleep; I wouldn’t choose sharing on that assumption alone.

Choose the room that lets you enjoy the trip
Rooming with someone new doesn’t have to stay awkward. Honest expectations, basic courtesy, and understanding what happens when concerns arise give you a firmer starting point.
I recommend choosing shared or private accommodation around your comfort and rest. Both leave plenty of room for enjoying the trip.